Did you recently make the decision to divorce? With the lockdowns, many couples have spent the last few months “toughing” it out but are now taking steps to divorce now that many stay at home orders have been lifted and courts have reopened in most areas. We want to remind you…it should never be your focus to “win” a divorce case. While we will always be our clients biggest advocate and will absolutely focus on the best possible outcome in your divorce settlement, no one should have the intention of “beating” their spouse, since this is not a competition. It is our job to help protect your assets and to help you think with your brain, not with your ego.
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Child custody battles are stressful. Adding a pandemic, virtual schooling, and closed childcare centers into the mix things you may find yourself in uncharted territory. Do you normally exchange at school? Does one parent (or both!) have jobs that don’t allow them to supervise virtual schooling? You may need to adjust plans that were previously working just fine. Of course, it may be an easy fix that requires flexibility and common sense, but you are not alone if you are dealing with a situation that is hard to manage. The time we are living in may requires more decisive actions and updated custodial agreements. If you need professional assistance to settle any custody issues in California or Colorado, please contact us.
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You don't need a wedding to signify your love for each other. We get it. If you are choosing to make a long-term commitment of cohabitation, without the intention of getting married, you do need a plan to address financial matters and property issues. Of course, you plan on forever, but life happens along the way. And it might not be a breakup...think unforeseen medical decisions, etc. If you and your partner are in a long-term committed relationship but do not have a cohabitation agreement - or "cohab" for short - we can help you sort out your legal rights and obligations. Please schedule a consultation!
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It's important to come to an agreement on co-parenting. Here are some important things to remember.
>>Each co-parent is equal.
>>Both parents are equally responsible for the children.
>>Extended families - on both sides - are important.
>>The reason for the divorce is irrelevant when moving forward as co-parents.
>>Each parent is unique and will add value to the child's life and development.
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Anyone from Los Angeles? With offices in Santa Monica (& Denver) we can help with your family law needs in California. Which is good to keep in mind, since according to some surveys, the divorce rate in California is 10% higher than the country average of 50%. #justsaying
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It's important to come to an agreement on co-parenting. Here are some important things to remember.
>>Each co-parent is equal.
>>Both parents are equally responsible for the children.
>>Extended families - on both sides - are important.
>>The reason for the divorce is irrelevant when moving forward as co-parents.
>>Each parent is unique and will add value to the child's life and development.
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Do you have any tips or reminders to include? Please share in the comments below.
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Tip: Don't underestimate the power of forgiveness!
Make it a priority to FORGIVE not only your ex, but also yourself, and anyone else who you may feel let you down during your divorce. Holding onto resentment and anger is detrimental to your overall health & well being. Remember that forgiveness is far more about freeing your own mind & spirit than letting your ex off the hook for any wrongs they may have done.
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Kindness, especially going through a divorce, is so important.
One of our favorites, Hollywood actors Chris Pratt, opens up about his past divorce with Anna Faris. He shares with Entertainment Weekly…
“Divorce sucks. But at the end of the day, we’ve got a great kid who’s got two parents who love him very much. And we’re finding a way to navigate this while still remaining friends and still being kind to one another. It’s not ideal, but yeah, I think both of us are actually probably doing better.”
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If you are considering divorce, due to the deterioration of your marriage, your spouse probably has a good idea that it is coming. It is still smart to retain an attorney before you tell your spouse you are filing. Also, having your lawyer send a friendly letter informing your spouse that you have filed for a divorce and want it to remain amicable can set the tone for a calm and agreeable legal process. Please reach out for assistance!
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"My fiance and I are not rich so we don't need a prenuptial agreement."
This is a common misconception. In fact, anyone can have a prenuptial agreement created for financial issues that may arise in the future, should a divorce occur.
If you are planning to be married in either Colorado or California and are interested in a prenuptial agreement, please contact us!
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Following your divorce, embrace the opportunity to create new traditions. It can be exciting and liberating to create your holidays any way you wish, with or without children!
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Counseling can be beneficial for reconnecting you and your spouse. It's always smart to see if counseling can help you sort out your differences before considering divorce. Many times, years of bitterness and frustration can be traced back to one tiny misunderstanding that has grown to overshadow your marriage. But if you’ve tried to reconcile through counseling, and you can’t put the past behind you, it may be time to move on.
Read more about this topic on our blog to help you determine whether it is time to file for divorce.
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Working with us ensures you have all of the resources you need for your divorce. This includes access to experts in divorce tax matters, accounting, financial planning, valuation, employee benefits, and child custody issues.
We would love to help you achieve the best possible outcome. Connect with us today!
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Divorce can open the door to a new outlook on life. Rediscover your passions and say yes to new opportunities. You never know where they can take you.
What is a quote that has inspired you during or after your divorce? Please share it with us below!
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Remember to take care of yourself during the divorce process. Prioritizing self-care can help you stay healthy and reduce stress. It can also help you to stay focused and present in decisions that will have a large impact on the rest of your life. It also allows you to take better care of your children.
Here are some simple ways to get in a little self-care for yourself every day:
-Call a friend just to chat
-Practice meditation
-Take a bath
-Read a magazine
-Get in a workout
-Journal
-Cook or order in your favorite meal
-Get outside
-Get a massage
How do you prioritize self-care in your daily routine and how has it helped you through stressful times?
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When parents of an adopted child are going through a divorce, the custody agreements are the same as if the child was born into the marriage. The process typically involves a custody order that includes continued contact with both parents.
In the case of child support for adopted children, they will receive an adoption subsidy payment. The child continues to receive this payment until they reach the age of maturity.
Feel free to reach out to us with any additional questions.
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Who gets to stay in the house?
This is a common concern for couples divorcing. The answer often comes down to if there are children residing in the house. If so, the main caretaker of the children will stay in the home while the other parent moves out. In turn, if children are not involved the courts will carefully look at a myriad of factors including which party can afford to obtain new accommodations and which party contributed the majority of funds toward the home.
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Divorce may seem like an odd thing to be grateful for, but your marriage likely brought a lot of happiness to your life at one point. It may have even brought you your children, and that is a blessing.
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"One day you will tell your story of how you overcame what you went through and it will be someone else's survival guide." -Brene Brown
If you need guidance through your divorce, our attorneys at Duncan Family Law are here for you.
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Should you get counseling after a divorce? We definitely recommend this as it can ease your emotional stress and help heal. Take your time and give yourself grace.
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"You don't need closure. You just need to give yourself permission to move on." -Steve Harvey
Duncan Family Law is here to help, when you're ready.
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How do you help your family cope with divorce? Tip: Recognize that every family member of yours may have different feelings. Know that this is normal and that these reactions will get better overtime.
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How long will my divorce take?
An uncontested divorce can be completed within 91 days in Colorado and approximately 6 months in California. Contested issues, such as child custody, child support and spousal support, can significantly extend this time period. Talk to one of our lawyers today to get a better look into a timeline for your particular circumstances.
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Co-parenting with your ex can be challenging after a divorce. Tip: To keep a healthy relationship between your kids and each parent, let your child frequently communicate with the other parent. Try to keep the lines of communication open and available.
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