Wendy Anderton Foreman
September 20 at 7:15 AM ·
Jillian Grant
August 16 at 3:33 PM ·
The mental health issues related to our lockdown and the pandemic are especially hard for people with depression. NAMI, The National Alliance on Mental Health has a 24 hour helpline: 800-950-6264.
Please could any two of my Facebook friends just copy and repost to share the helpline far and wide?
Just two. Any two. Say done.
The mental health issues related to our lockdown and the pandemic are especially hard for people with depression. NAMI, The National Alliance on Mental Health has a 24 hour helpline: 800-950-6264.
Please could any two of my Facebook friends just copy and repost to share the helpline far and wide?
Just two. Any two. Say done.
Begin with Yes
August 13 at 5:30 PM ·
Devrie Soluade
June 16 at 6:35 AM ·
#Message 💯
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Kari Rainey James
November 9 at 2:28 PM ·
Damn. It. 🎯 This. Hits. Hard.
The inability to receive support from others is a trauma response.
Your “I don’t need anyone, I’ll just do it all myself” conditioning is a survival tactic. And you needed it to shield your heart from abuse, neglect, betrayal, and disappointment from those who could not or would not be there for you.
From the parent who was absent and abandoned you by choice or the parent who was never home from working three jobs to feed and house you.
From the lovers who offered sexual intimacy but never offered a safe haven that honored your heart.
From the friendships and family who ALWAYS took more than they ever gave.
From all the situations when someone told you “we’re in this together” or “I got you” then abandoned you, leaving you to pick up the pieces when shit got real, leaving you to handle your part and their part, too.
From all the lies and all the betrayals.
You learned along the way that you just couldn’t really trust people. Or that you could trust people, but only up to a certain point.
Extreme-independence IS. A. TRUST. ISSUE.
You learnt: if I don’t put myself in a situation where I rely on someone, I won’t have to be disappointed when they don’t show up for me, or when they drop the ball... because they will ALWAYS drop the ball EVENTUALLY right?
You may even have been intentionally taught this protection strategy by generations of hurt ancestors who came before you.
Extreme-independence is a preemptive strike against heartbreak.
So, you don’t trust anyone.
And you don’t trust yourself, either, to choose people.
To trust is to hope, to trust is to be vulnerable.
“Never again,” you vow.
But no matter how you dress it up and display it proudly to make it seem like this level of independence is what you always wanted to be, in truth it’s your wounded, scarred, broken heart behind a protective brick wall.
Impenetrable. Nothing gets in. No hurt gets in. But no love gets in either.
Fortresses and armor are for those in battle, or who believe the battle is coming.
It’s a trauma response.
The good news is trauma that is acknowledged is trauma that can be healed.
You are worthy of having support.
You are worthy of having true partnership.
You are worthy of love.
You are worthy of having your heart held.
You are worthy to be adored.
You are worthy to be cherished.
You are worthy to have someone say, “You rest. I got this.” And actually deliver on that promise.
You are worthy to receive.
You are worthy to receive.
You are worthy.
You don’t have to earn it.
You don’t have to prove it.
You don’t have to bargain for it.
You don’t have to beg for it.
You are worthy.
Worthy.
Simply because you exist.
-Jamila White, @inspiredjamila
Covid has been here for 9+ months now....and winter is looming. Mental health issues related to our lockdown and the pandemic are especially hard for people with depression and other mental health disorders.
NAMI, The National Alliance on Mental Illness has a 24-hour helpline: 800-950-6264.
The relapse and overdose rate has increased by 30% since March 2020.
I’m asking my small corner of FB to follow suit: Could any two of my Facebook friends please just copy and repost to share the helpline far and wide?
Just two. Any two. Say done. Thank you!
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Mastin Kipp
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Healing happens when we feel connected and like we belong.
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Seek out and create environments and relationships of safety, connection and belonging in your healing and optimization journey.
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You belong here and I love you,
Mastin
"It can be painful and anger-inducing to watch a narcissist get away with everything they do. Worse still, when you try to speak out against them, everyone may be on their side. Unfortunately, all you can really do is protect yourself and stand up for others who come forward with complaints".
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Mastin Kipp
February 17 at 6:30 AM ·
Safe relationships and safe attachments are some of the most powerful tools we have to heal trauma. Love this @bessel_van
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Bob Proctor
March 23 at 1:52 PM ·
We can build anything in our imagination. That’s where all creation begins in your life.
I hope you have a spectacular day today. Have an attitude of gratitude and expect an abundance. ✨🙌 #BobProctor #Abundance #LoA
