Staying together "for the kids" is a notion that can sometimes bring more stress to a child's life than the divorce itself. Read more about it here-
https://sports.yahoo.com/kelly-clarkson-kristin-cavallari-christina-anstead-divorce-184823960.html
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For Kelly Clarkson, Kristin Cavallari and Christina Anstead, divorce means putting the kids first
Ruth Bader Ginsburg's decisions help shape family law as it is today. May her legacy continue to be an inspiration for all who face adversity.
"In America, in heterosexual relationships, women do three times as much work as their male counterparts. It’s true that modern men are doing more than they once did, but their efforts do not come close to evening the scales."
Read more about a women's decision to divorce and start over again due to inequalities in her marriage. Click the link here-
https://www.glamour.com/story/it-took-divorce-to-make-my-marriage-equal
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It Took Divorce to Make My Marriage Equal
In case you missed it, yesterday was National Step-Family Day. With over 50% of US families remarried, or re-coupled, Sesame Street has included a step family into the life of one of kids favorite characters. Learn more on how the show teaches about love in these blended families here-https://www.moms.com/sesame-street-blended-families/
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What ‘Sesame Street’ Has Taught Us About Blended Families
Thanks to a new policy, Air Force assignments now take child custody arrangements into consideration. Read more on how it helped this Jacksonville family co-parent here-
https://www.military.com/daily-news/2020/08/27/air-force-grants-1st-assignment-under-new-co-parenting-accommodation-policy.html
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Air Force Grants 1st Assignment Under New Co-Parenting Accommodation Policy
During your marriage have you experienced significant changes in estate finances, business ownership, or simply want to ensure fairness in division of assets in the case of divorce? A postnuptial agreement can be beneficial to protect yourself and your spouse. Read more about postnuptial agreements here-https://www.forbes.com/sites/frawleypollock/2020/05/11/do-you-need-a-postnup/#689109436652
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Do You Need A Postnup?
Do you know the signal for help? Precautions for COVID-19 have created added complications when it comes to leaving an abuser. Using and recognizing this sign can help domestic violence victims ask for help without using a digital trace. #DVAM2020
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUJV-9wvdB8
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Signal For Help
What should you do if you suspect a loved one is a victim of domestic violence? Read more on how to provide support here- #DVAM2020
https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-help-a-victim-of-domestic-violence-66533
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9 Ways to Help a Domestic Violence Victim
Experts suggest that the pandemic has led to an increase in domestic violence in Jacksonville. You don't have to live with abuse. Organizations like Hubbard House, Inc. can help with life saving and life changing services. #DVAM2020
https://www.actionnewsjax.com/news/local/duval-county/increase-domestic-calls-puts-spotlight-problem-domestic-violence-awareness-month/TBSVWPK5BRF5PGYDMCA7KMCFBI/?fbclid=IwAR3VO_uJwsAW6WeFYaIhxaVG_-d-xA5IygTX1CNFJTwHDwu1qPUMdjEi67o
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Increase in domestic calls puts spotlight on problem for Domestic Violence Awareness Month
Love is not supposed to hurt. If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence, get help through the domestic violence hotline.
Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-500-1119
TTY Hotline: 1-800-621-4202
https://youtu.be/uV5EjK2H_l4
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Love Is Not Supposed To Hurt 30 Sec DCF2
The Power and Control Wheel can help people identify common behaviors that abusers use to maintain control in a potentially domestically violent relationship.
Many of those behaviors are not physical, but are used rather regularly by abusers to reinforce acts of physical violence, thus making up a larger system of abuse.
If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence, contact the domestic abuse hotline at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233).
When beginning a co-parenting plan there can be separation anxiety for both parents and children. Putting strategies in place to help cope can ease the situation. Read more about it here-
https://www.abc.net.au/life/co-parenting-in-first-stages-of-a-break-up/12684578
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How Claire coped with the early stages of co-parenting - ABC Life
Having the right team in place is critical during a divorce. Read more about the professionals you want on your side throughout the process here-
https://www.forbes.com/sites/heatherlocus/2020/10/23/what-star-athletes-can-teach-you-to-win-your-divorce/?sh=64db9efd7b99
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What Star Athletes Can Teach You To Win Your Divorce
Happy Halloween from the Law Office of Beth M. Terry 🎃
As Domestic Violence Awareness Month comes to a close- please know if you or someone you know is a victim of abuse- you can get help and you can have hope. Click the link below to read one woman's story of how she copes and options for support. #DVAM2020
https://www.news4jax.com/news/local/2020/10/16/woman-abused-by-ex-husband-hopes-to-help-others-through-dance/
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Woman abused by ex-husband hopes to help others through dance
Does the extra work of QDRO's scare you?
Treat yourself- and let us do them instead! Click the link to find out more!
https://mailchi.mp/1d0dc4576206/treat-yourself-let-us-handle-those-tricky-qdros
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Treat Yourself- Let Us Handle Those Tricky QDROs! 🎃
Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDROs) are important to have retirement funds and pensions split appropriately during a divorce. Learn more about dividing these assets here-
https://www.kiplinger.com/retirement/602029/considering-divorce-beware-of-retirement-account-breakups
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Considering Divorce? Beware of Retirement Account Breakups | Kiplinger
Both divorce and marriages decreased in 2020, a year of uncertainty. Experts had predicted a surge in divorce- will an increase be seen as things normalize in 2021? Read more about it here-
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2021-01-05/divorces-and-marriages-tumbled-in-u-s-during-covid-study-shows
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Divorces and Marriages Tumbled in U.S. During Covid, Study Shows
We've almost made it through 2020! Happy New Year 🎉
Preparing for divorce in 2021? These tips can help get your finances in order. Read more here-
https://www.nerdwallet.com/blog/finance/7-ways-to-prepare-your-finances-for-divorce/
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7 Ways to Ready Your Finances for Divorce
Wishing everyone a happy, health Holiday Season!
With Jacksonville being a prominent military city we know many people here truly know how to sacrifice. Click the link to learn more about how military families get through the holidays when separated- and how you can do it too.
https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/voices/2020/12/08/military-families-holiday-christmas-lockdown-covid-column/3861518001/
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A COVID Christmas: Military families are used to spending holidays apart. You can do it, too.
