Empaths, Old Souls & Introverts
September 27 at 5:28 AM ·
For anyone who has been in a marriage with a personality disordered partner who emotionally, verbally, or physically abused you, lied to you and about you, gaslighted you, triangulated you with family members and friends, cheated on you, had a secret life, and shifted blame on you for their inability to control themselves, then you will benefit from following this Instagram page @divorceanarcissist.
You will discover you are not crazy, after all. You will see the patterns of distress that are typical for living with a person with narcissistic personality disorder AND how to process the trauma you've endured, grieve the way you've been tricked and the loss of love that was an illusion, and recover the whole self you were before the NPD abuse.
You know... when you consider the pain you cause a person that person’s own fault… that’s evil.. (Yellowstone) I agree. #NPD #gaslighting #BlameShifting #RedFlagWarning
1. Everyone doesn’t have good in them. Hardest lesson I’ve ever learned.
Some people will look you in your eye, promise their loyalty and love, and stab you in the back the minute you walk away. And then blame you like the coward they are and make fun of your gullibility to others. Even though they are backstabbers who try to prove you’re worthless if you don’t keep their secrets.
Lesson #2: Never keep the secrets of abusive people who make you feel uncomfortable or have already harmed you. The truth will set you free.
Empaths, Old Souls & Introverts
September 23 at 9:37 AM ·
Pensacola Pediatrics
October 8 at 12:34 PM ·
So true!!! Seeing a therapist means you care for yourself!!! If you or your child/teen is going through a difficult period...show yourself some ❤️!! If unsure how to begin, call the office to see if a visit with your pediatrician would be a place to start.
Important to know.
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Empaths, Old Souls & Introverts
October 10 at 7:27 AM ·
PTSD is a human response to ABNORMAL circumstances.
Trauma affects the entire human organism— body, mind, and brain. In PTSD, the body continues to defend against a threat that belongs to the past. (Bessel van der Kolk, “The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma”)
We’re not just treating the mind. It’s so much bigger than that! We have to address the needs of the entire body, mind, and soul to recover from trauma.
#trauma #traumainformed #traumarecovery
Each time a woman stands up for herself without knowing it possibly... without claiming it... she stands up for all women. (Maya Angelou) #StandUp #standstrong #SilentNoMore #SpeakUp #speakout
When you develop a boundary meant to ensure your emotional or physical safety, people who care about you will respect your boundary. People who don’t care will challenge, disrespect, ignore, or tell others you are suddenly a problem person. 🤔 These are the people who have something to gain when you are without boundaries. Don’t listen. #boundaries #yougotthis
Empaths, Old Souls & Introverts
18 hrs ·
Hoping everyone is doing ok. ❤️
Empaths, Old Souls & Introverts
October 16 at 6:05 PM ·
Be proud. I am. ❤️
Empaths, Old Souls & Introverts
October 14 at 5:20 AM ·
Zig Ziglar
October 19 at 9:03 PM ·
Truth. 👌 I will devote my life to helping others overcome narcissistic psychopath abuse.
Empaths, Old Souls & Introverts
October 19 at 1:22 PM ·
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Empaths, Old Souls & Introverts
October 31 at 5:22 PM ·
You gain wisdom from your painful experiences. ❤️
Steven Furtick
November 23 at 11:16 PM ·
Do you wish you could have done things differently? It’s easy to look back and imagine the decisions we’d change if we had a do-over. But don’t judge yesterday’s decisions with today’s wisdom.
Experts say the more resilient we are, the better we can face life challenges.... And the single biggest factor for cultivating #resilience? Positive relationships. So find your people... and keep them close. Because when you're at your lowest... those people get you through." (Meredith Grey, Ep 4) #findyourpeople
Truth.
Adrian Anderson
December 26, 2020 at 4:37 PM ·
David was brave. 💪 He slayed the Goliath in his life. 🙌
TobyMac
January 17 at 1:00 PM ·
Suicidal threats, gestures, and attempts [after abusive episodes] are often ploys to gain silence from the abused person and avoid consequences. Don’t be held hostage by your abuser threatening suicide. Don’t keep the secret. Call 911. It is not your job to “save” your abuser. Get outside intervention and help. #loveshouldnthurt #psychologicalabuse
“When you operate on a mistaken assumption that a victim of abuse has enough agency to escape, all you're doing is help take the agency they do have away.” Don’t ask a woman why she didn’t leave. Ask the man why did he hold her hostage. (Twigs)
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If you are depressed, you are living in the past. If you are anxious, you are living in the future. If you are at peace, you are living in the present. (Lao Tzu) It's so simple. Why didn't I think of this first?! LOL. I choose to lIve fully present in THIS moment & THIS day!
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The Holderness Family
February 26 at 1:00 PM ·
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This is a great idea!
Glennon Doyle
March 5, 2019 at 10:14 AM ·
I love my kids’ friends so much that I want them to talk to each other at our house. So Abby and I have them check their phones at the door. Which we can do cause we’re the bosses of this house. They all act exasperated but seem interestingly relieved. Then, after a minute, they look at each other. And talk. And dance and laugh and stuff. And they remember that they are with their friends so there is no need to be anywhere else.
Tony Robbins
March 9 at 10:25 PM ·
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Peace , Love and Smiles
March 17 at 6:40 AM ·
TRUTH.
The Court Said
March 15 at 2:15 AM ·
#thecourtsaid #DABill
Good info.
Ace Metaphor was live.
March 16 at 8:34 AM ·
Why narcissist are so difficult to spot in the beginning 😫😫😫
Trent Shelton
March 14 at 9:10 AM ·
Your heart will heal. Your tears will dry. The storm will end. Everything you’re going through, will soon become everything you made it through. ❤️
Because trauma results in disconnection, the antidote is connection. Therefore, the most powerful protective factors in guarding against trauma and its long-term effects are authentic relationships and supportive communities. 🎯 💯 #connection
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